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Vanessa Gao .♋️. plant artist.lover.

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And the whole: my dad was a feminist!!!

you know what, fuck your fucking dad. His male privilege afforded him so much freedom.

It is never: I am proud of my feminist mom, she taught me to be a feminist.

So shout out to all the feminist mothers who are placed in the shadow of their husbands, just because he once said something like “I dont hate women„ erh heheh”


dream date: we get chinese food delivered, it’s raining, i take a shower in your shower (it must be a nice shower with good water pressure), you let me wear your clothes after i shower, you have a cat that i can pet, we watch movies, i fall asleep in your bed for like fifteen hours, you fall in love with me


”Its okay to use the term nymphet because Nabokov didnt make it, it already existed in ancient greece!”

As far as I’m aware; no, it didn’t. NYMPH existed before Nabokov, NYMPHET didn’t.

Nymphet was coined by Nabokov, through Humbert.

"Now I wish to introduce the following idea. Between the…


Anonymous asked: Are you into little girl / daddy roleplay at all? Any level?

I’m probably going to lose followers for this but im sick of getting this question. Short answer is: No. Here’s why. I work at a tattoo shop, I observe how people cope with pain first hand. Many people choose to cancel out pain by inducing more pain, (biting, pinching themselves, etc.) this is very common for people. We suppress pain with more pain and I feel like this is the case for people who choose to carry on with a BDSM relationship. Although some people might think that this isn’t exactly the case for them, I would suggest that they undergo a self-evaluation and find the root of their desire for pain. There are so many other ways to stimulate a person in a loving, caring relationship. This includes sex. You say you enjoy getting hurt, but what’s actually happening is your brain is releasing endocannabinoids, a chemical that eases pain but also causes it. Daddydom/it’s derivatives supports the idea that power is given to the “dominate” by the “submissive” and ok i’m sorry but that is not love. Shit’s 50/50 and get over this stupid trend, ok?